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Make the First Step Small

We may want to begin something and still find ourselves putting it off. The whole task looks large, and every time we consider it, another reason to wait appears.

For a simple, low-risk task we have already chosen, it can help to make the beginning much smaller.

If we want to tidy a room, we could put away five things. If we want to write, we could open the document and add one sentence. There is no requirement to finish everything in that moment.

The first step gives us a different situation to respond to. The document is open. A little space is clear. We can see what might come next.

Sometimes we will continue; sometimes that small action is enough for today. Either way, we have moved from considering the task to doing a part of it.

We can save careful planning for decisions that need it, and give an ordinary beginning permission to be ordinary.

A SMALL THING TO TRY

Pick one task you have already decided to do. Reduce its first step until it feels manageable, and do that part.

Stay with this thought

My earlier pieces used inertia and momentum as images for getting started. They are useful metaphors, though our habits are more complicated than objects in motion.

We can also make returning easier. Leave a note about the next step, put the materials together, or choose when to come back. A little preparation can spare us having to work out the beginning all over again.

This approach is for everyday tasks. Important financial, health, or relationship decisions deserve time and appropriate information; an impulse alone is not a reason to rush them.